After a break up, many women are left heart broken. They take more time to recover from the shock they get from the break up than men do. They keep wondering where they went wrong. At this point they can do just anything so as to get their man back. They end up making fools of themselves. This in the end makes their ex s to feel that they made a right decision in breaking up the relationship. The thought of a get back does not close their mind. There are many ways on how to attract men and how to get your ex-boyfriend back.
One of these ways is by trying to understand how men think. On understanding it one can then use their way of thinking as a weapon to attract them back to you. After a break up men always expect you to start calling, writing messages and emails to them. You should not try talking him.
It is good to avoid him when you can. They like it when one seems desperate. However doing all this does not make them change their mind. This only ends convincing them that they had made a right decision in breaking up with you.
When one acts calm after the break up, and moves on with life, then this makes the man feel bad. It makes him feel that he misses to be with you. Acting strong and mature is a good weapon. This makes him come after you. Men are mostly attracted to confident women.
You should also not be too nice and bow down to every one of his whims. This is because by doing so a person seems desperate. Acting too nice also makes the relationship to be too boring. This makes him feel that you are insecure.
It is also good to show him that you have other special people in your life. Most men are mostly attracted to women because of their outward appearances. It is therefore important for one to consider how she looked like when they first met. This is getting your body into the same shape it was in when you met and also dressing up in the same type of clothes you used to in the days he was attracted to you.
It is also good for one to realize that gifts like flowers should be used to tell someone that you like, love them or when you want to thank them. Giving these things to a person so that they can get attracted to you is not advisable. This is because it could lead to them thinking that you have faults that you are trying to hide.
When a relationship is broken up your boyfriend could be giving you time to change. However it is good for one to be able to read in between the lines and be able to tell whether her spouse is going to give her a second chance in the relationship or not. It is not good for one to have her hopes high on things that will never take place.